First; Have fun! Be happy, funny and entertaining. Do you like to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.

Second; Seepage trust. Successful flirts have a positive attitude to life. You must “feel good” factor to send. An optimistic attitude attracts women like honey attracts flies.

Third; My compliments … and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about themselves. You want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Not even written.

Fourth; Listen … listen …. . Pay attention to hear what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about themselves. Let her feel that she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Does wonders!

Fifth; Do not be rude. To flirt that does not include sexually explicit, nor offense if the lady does not respond to you. If they are not interested, take the hint and go to the next prospect. If you have a lot of rejection, you should probably consider a different approach.

Sixth; Send an e-mail after you entertained. It belongs up there with sending a thank you for a gift and it is essential to successful flirting.

Try not to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

It’s best to start the planning process as far in advance as possible. For some couples that need to get married fast, they may not have more than a few months or a few weeks to start the planning process. If at all possible, try to give yourself at least six months to start planning. Many couples employ a wedding coordinator to assist with setting everything up and planning for the big day. A coordinator can take a vast weight off the shoulders of a couple because this person is a professional and knows exactly what needs to be taken care of. Thus, the couple can depend mostly on the coordinator to plan all of the things that need to be planned and they only need to make the final decisions on what the coordinator suggests.

Setting up a ceremony and reception for hundreds of guests can cost thousands and thousands of dollars, but it doesn’t have to. You can plan a nice wedding and one that you will be sure to remember for as cheap as you want. Sure you will likely have to give up some of the fancier things and maybe not be able to feed everyone free food and drinks, but you can get married no matter how small your budget is.

When you work with a coordinator, let them know right up front what your wedding budget is. Starting the wedding planning process as early as possible will not only help to make sure everything is coordinated and set up on time, but the earlier you can start the process the more money you will be able to save.

If you are having a large wedding and really want to make an impact Herstmonceux Castle in East Sussex is just the place. This grand 15^th century castle surrounded by its own moat is truly spectacular. The Ballroom can accommodate up to 180 guests. You can choose to have your reception inside the castle or if the weather is favourable you can set up a marquee in the extensive gardens.
 

Herstmonceux Castle by Burwash Calligrapher on flickr

If you’re struggling to find accommodation for so many guests, Millennium Hotels has two Gatwick airport hotels to choose from: the Copthorne Hotel London Gatwick and the Copthorne Hotel Effingham Gatwick. Both of these Gatwick Airport hotels offer extensive facilities that include swimming pools, squash courts and golf. The benefit of locating your guests at Gatwick Airport hotels is the great transport links, both internationally and domestically and speedy access to the Sussex, Hampshire and Surry countryside.

If you’d rather something a little more quaint and unique, Nymans in West Sussex is a great choice. Stunning 20^th century gardens surround a ruined mansion creating a romantic, dreamy backdrop. There are wild flower meadows, a lake, ancient woodlands and a ruined house filled with flowers. You can find more information about this venue on the National Trust website.

Frensham Heights in Surry is an impressive and dominating Edwardian manor house just outside Farnham. The rooms are oak panelled and decked out with chandeliers and one-of-a-kind ceiling roses. The grounds, which are extensive, are traditional and offer breathtaking views of the surrounding Surry countryside and the red brick building acquires a warm, burning hue at sunset. You can choose to have your wedding outside on the lawns or inside one of the grand sounding rooms such as the Ballroom, Drawing Room or Long Gallery.

Birmingham Hotels

The Copthorne Hotel Birmingham is one of the city’s finest hotels. Of all the Birmingham hotels this one from Millennium Hotels has one of the best locations. It is near all the major attractions from the Bullring Shopping Centre and Electric Cinema to the Birmingham Museum and Art Gallery and the city’s canal network.

Birmingham Restaurants

Birmingham is home of British balti. Indian cooking in the UK is not like that in its homeland, rather we eat balti Indian, which was created in Birmingham in the 1970s by the swelling local Indian and Pakistani communities. Today, balti dishes are among the most popular in the UK and the best places to sample true balti food can be found in the Balti Triangle in Birmingham. The cream of the crop is Al Frash. It has a slick, modern interior but authentic and traditional balti cuisine. Plus you can get your mitts on a main meal from just £5.

Balti Lamb Tikka Saag by Simmo1024 on flickr

Birmingham Shopping

Birmingham is one of the greatest shopping cities in the UK. There are several shopping centres including the luxury label outlet The Mailbox, but the best shopping location in town is The Bullring. Here you’ll find Selfridges, Debenhams, TK Maxx, Next, H&M, Topshop, Oasis, Warehouse… the list goes on and on. It is one of the largest city centre shopping centres and boasts more than 160 shops.

Birmingham Sites

When the temperature rises this summer you want to be out enjoying it. The Birmingham Botanical Gardens and Glasshouses are magical, beautiful places to spend a sunny summer afternoon. This 15-acre oasis is home to horticultural exhibitions, water gardens, family gardens and herb gardens. It’s definitely a must when in Birmingham.